You know how TERF means "trans-exclusionary radical feminist," right? I'm starting to feel like there needs to be a term/acronym that means something along the lines of "asexual/aromantic-exclusionary (radical?) ...um... LGBT-supporters... ...?" Needs some work, but that would be the gist of it. This is assuming, of course, that there isn't
already a term/acronym like that and I'm simply not aware of it. And, with that said, this certainly
isn't a new phenomenon or anything.
Take
this Polygon article about the
most recent Ghostbusters movie, for example. Basically, the article seems to take the stance of "They
must kiss/confess love/fuck/whatever, or it just doesn't count at all." Fuck off with that shit. Look, if they made another new
Ghostbusters movie involving these characters, and they made Phoebe openly gay, I would be totally fine with that (and if other
Ghostbusters "
fans" have a problem with that, they can fuck off, too), but at the same time, don't go shitting all over things that don't
exactly match up with how you
wish they were.
"Not every queer romance needs to be clearly spelled out on screen, but..." has very strong
"I'm not a racist, but..."/"I'm not a homophobe, but..." energy.
Also... Phoebe Spengler is "so,
so queer-coded" because of... her hair and the way she dresses? Uh, so, was Egon Spengler "so,
so queer-coded," too, then? Because
Mckenna Grace in these new movies was explicitly and intentionally made up to
look almost exactly like how
Harold Ramis looked in the original movies. I mean, sure, it could be
both of those things, but it's way more the latter than the former in intention, though. And I don't recall anyone trying to claim that Phoebe was "so,
so queer-coded" in
Afterlife (especially considering the chemistry she had with Podcast [a male character] in
that movie).
And, lastly, "in case you're
lucky enough to have not watched the newest new Ghostbusters movies" (emphasis mine). Implying that anyone who
has watched them is "unlucky"? Fuck off with
that shit, too. The new
Ghostbusters movies (i.e.
Afterlife and
Frozen Empire, anyway[1]) are fine. Admittedly, I didn't like
Frozen Empire nearly as much as I did
Afterlife, myself, but it's not "a frankly bad movie" either, and I don't feel "unlucky" to have seen it.
(I don't feel comfortable putting the "
homophobia" tag on this because it doesn't really fit, and I don't have an "acephobia"/"aphobia" tag yet [nor do I feel like putting one just on this one post], but if I ever, sadly, find a reason to make another post in the future that would need a tag like that, I'll add it and backtag this one with it as well.)
[1] - I thought
the 2016 movie (
Ghostbusters: Answer the Call or whatever the fuck they're calling it now) was okay, too (despite the intensely shitty trailers for it), but that's neither here nor there, as that movie has nothing to do with the newer ones, which were actual, passing-the-torch sequels of the originals, rather than a failed attempt at a reboot.